Stop waiting for love to find you...
"You Can Attract the Man of Your Dreams -- and Receive a Marriage
Proposal in 12 Months or Less!"
Step-by-Step Plan for Finding the Love of Your Life
By Bob Grant,
L.P.C., "The Relationship Doctor"
are the top 3 attributes or traits of your dream man?
(Check 3 items
from list below):
Okay, are you done choosing the top 3
attributes or traits of your dream man?
Now, let me ask you a question:
How long have you been
waiting for your dream man to show up in your life? How long
have you been waiting for love to find you?
If you're like most women, from the time you were old enough to think,
you've dreamed that one day your PrinceCharming would come along -- and
he would sweep you off your feet, and you'd live happily ever after,
But it hasn't happened -- and you're still waiting, aren't you?
You're not alone. There are countless women who are in the same boat as
you. Consider the following:
A study by The New York Times and the Census bureau has
shown that more than half of the adult women in America are
single. This is the first time in history that the
number of single women in America -- 50 million -- has
exceeded the number of married women.
Imagine ... there
are now over 50 million single women in America -- and the number
of single women in other countries is just as staggering.
unfortunately, being in the company of millions of single women doesn't
make you feel any less lonely or discouraged, does it?
Chances are, you've begun to ask yourself, 'What's wrong with me?
Why can't I find a wonderful man who wants to marry me?'
In my 17 years of experience as a Licensed Professional Counselor,
therapist and relationship coach, I've found that marriage-minded
single women who haven't found their dream man -- or haven't
received a marriage proposal -- tend to have feelings of being
worthless or defective with every passing day. Even if they
try to appear confident and carefree on the outside, they usually hide a
deep-seated feeling of isolation -- of being left behind.
A single woman's fears, insecurities and loneliness are
magnified whenever a friend or relative gets married -- and she
still isn't married. Every time she sees a happily married couple, she
is given the awful reminder that no man wants to marry her. She worries
she'll never find Mr. Right, that she'll never be married -- or that
she's doomed to a lonely, unmarried life. She even begins to wonder
whether she should just settle for any man who comes around.
Does this sound familiar? Perhaps you've felt this same pain yourself?
What if I told you that I can help you easily find and attract not
just any man -- but the man of your dreams -- and that I
can guarantee he will propose marriage to you in 12 months or less?
In the next 5 minutes, as you read this
article in its entirety, you will discover
the No. 1 reason why most women are not able to find,
attract and keep the man of their dreams -- and what you
can do about it so that you can finally find a wonderful man who
wants to marry you
.... how to never fear that you'll end up with the wrong
man -- but instead have the confidence to know that you'll find
and choose the man who's exactly right for you
... why what you want and what you think
you want in a man may be incompatible -- and how knowing the
difference will enable you to finally find your dream man who is
ideal for you
It doesn't matter whether you're a single woman who's
never been married, or a divorced or widowed woman who wishes to
remarry. Neither does it matter whether you're tall or short, shy or
outgoing, thin or heavy, what your skin color is, whether you have
children or not, or what part of the country (or the world) you live
in. It also makes no difference how many times you've tried to find the
right man and failed. When you follow my proven plan exactly
as prescribed, you cannot fail to get the man of your dreams
-- and more importantly, have a long-lasting and blissful relationship
Who Am I -- and Why Do I Get So
Many Wedding Invitations?
name is Bob Grant. I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist,
and relationship coach with 17 years of successful practice. I'm
also the author of two popular books, The Woman Men Adore ... And Never Want to Leave, and How to Get Him Back.
People call me "The Relationship Doctor" because I have the
finding love, keeping passion alive, and reigniting relationships that
have lost their spark.
It always amazes me when women tell me "It's so hard to find a good
man." On the contrary, I think it's really easy for any woman --
and that includes you -- to find not just any good man but
your dream man -- if you know how. I'll tell you how in a
Year after year, I get the
privilege of seeing many of my female clients not only have a wonderful
man walk right into their life -- but also receive a marriage proposal
within a short period of time. In fact, one of the most gratifying
rewards of my practice is the number of wedding invitations I
receive from clients!
"Will I Ever Get Married?"
A client of mine
(whom I will call Susan) was 29 years old when she came to seek my
help. She wanted to get married, but no matter how many different
men she dated, none of them led to marriage -- and she was very
Initially, I had to make her realize that she was
contributing to her problem by dating only men that were
“exciting” to her -- and didn't necessarily have the qualities
that were important to her. Was it any wonder that those
relationships never ended up in marriage?
It took Susan a few
months to accept the fact that
her dream man might not
appear to be her dream man upon the first encounter.
In the past, she
had often dismissed most of her dates after just one encounter
whenever she didn't feel that "instant chemistry" with them. I
showed her a proven plan
How to Find the Man of Your Dreams) that enabled her to zero
in on the qualities she really wanted in a husband
(instead of just the
She wanted a man to be strong, independent and caring -- which
were qualities that none of the "exciting" men she used to date
Over the next few months, her choice of men began to improve
as she implemented the plan. Slowly, she realized exactly what it
meant to listen to her heart -- and she finally met her dream
man! A few months later, I not only received a wedding invitation
from her -- but she
asked me to walk her down the aisle!
Over the last 17 years of counseling hundreds of real-life female
clients, I have carefully observed women who have been able to
successfully find, attract and marry their dream man -- as well as women
who have not been successful.
I made a very interesting discovery!
I found out that the women who are not successful at finding
their dream man have one thing in common. Do you know what it
is? Check one
you placed a check mark next to your answer? If so, which of the above
did you check
-- A, B, C or D?
If you checked any one of them, then I'm afraid that your answer
... is wrong.
The correct answer is none of them!
While some of the answers listed above do contribute to a woman's lack
of success in finding her dream man, it's not the main reason.
The No. 1
Reason Why You Have Not Been Able to
Get the Man of Your Dreams is...
...you have an
ineffective pattern regarding your relationships with men.
Patterns don't lie.
pattern is a combination of behaviors, thoughts,
emotions, actions, qualities and tendencies
forming a consistent arrangement that generally brings about a
Just as there is a pattern in some teenagers that causes them to
consume alcohol; a pattern in career people that causes them to
find only bad jobs; a pattern that causes individuals to have
anxiety in public speaking; so too, is there a pattern that causes
women to be unsuccessful at finding their dream man or an ideal
This pattern, which runs on auto-pilot, usually beneath the radar
of your awareness, makes you
your deepest desire to find love.
The good news is that once you identify the ineffective pattern
and replace it with an effective one, there is a very high
probability that you will find, attract and have a successful
relationship with the man of your dreams.
Yes -- believe it or not, it's as simple as that!
The problem that most single women have is that they don't know the
difference between an effective pattern regarding relationships
and an ineffective, self-sabotaging pattern. In fact, most women
don't even know that they have a pattern in the first place!
"Why do I always attract the
wrong kind of men?"
In February 2004,
Melissa J. wanted to quit dating altogether. She was 37, had been
dating continuously since she was 16 -- and she was sick to death
of the dating scene. In the last 21 years, she'd had two
boyfriends that lasted more than a year, and the rest lasted only
a few weeks to a few months apiece. She was so depressed because
all her girlfriends had already gotten married and she was the
only one who remained single. And yet she dreaded dating yet
another guy because she believed that all men were jerks
and all the good ones were already taken. She began believing the
cruel joke that says, "It's more likely for a single woman
over 35 to be killed by terrorists than to be married."
While outwardly, Melissa maintained the attitude that there
was something wrong with all men in general -- deep inside, she
felt there was something wrong with her. "Why do I always
attract the wrong kind of men?" she wondered. It was only after
she became aware of her self-sabotaging pattern (see
How to Find the Man of Your Dreams)
that she was able to replace it with an effective one. Her new
pattern created just a
slight shift in her mindset -- and yet the results were
Within weeks of changing her pattern, she had a string of
wonderful eligible men competing for her attention. After dating
a few, she quickly discovered that one of them, George M., was the
real deal -- the man of her dreams! She began seeing George
exclusively in May 2004 -- and on Valentine's Day 2005, 10 months
after their first date, he proposed marriage and she happily
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What You Want --
versus What You Think You Want -- in a Man
Earlier on, I asked you to pick the top 3 attributes or traits
of your dream man. Hopefully, you did that little fun exercise at the
top of this page.
Now, listen closely.
Just because you picked the top 3 qualities of your dream man does
not mean those are the things you want in a man.
Now, I can almost hear you say, "Huh?" Let me explain.
The top 3 things you answered are what you think you want in a
man -- and not necessarily what you really want in a man.
In my 17 years of relationship coaching, I've found that ...
what most women think they want in a man
is incompatible with
what they really want.
No wonder they can't find their dream man! There's a big discrepancy
between the two.
sure you've known women who've gushed about finding their dream man --
saying he has all the things they've been looking for. And yet later
on, they find out that their dream man turns out to be Mr. Wrong.
Perhaps this has even happened to you?
This all has to do with the ineffective pattern I spoke of earlier. You
have an unconscious pattern of being attracted to an imaginary picture
of an "ideal" man that, in reality, is completely wrong for you.
What good is having a tall, dark and handsome man, for instance, if he's
not good for you? What's the use of having a boyfriend with a great
sense of humor if he also has traits that you can't stand? Would you
want to be married to a romantic, sweet and affectionate man if he has
issues that are intolerable to you?
While it's impossible to find a man that is perfect in every way, you
can find a man who has all the qualities that are truly important
to you, and with whom you have the highest likelihood of being
I've found that when I've given women a simple exercise involving the
traits of a man that truly matter a lot to them, they began to
realize that the things they
thought they couldn't live without weren't nearly as important as they
I'm sure you've known women who, upon
meeting a man who did not seem to have the ideal qualities she
wanted, ended up falling in love with the man and living happily ever
after. Many such women admit that if they had not gotten over their
petty ideals of male perfection, they would not have found the love of
Doe this mean you have to "settle" for someone who is not as great a man
as you want to have?
No, not at all. You never have
to compromise what you
absolutely must have in a man in order to get a man who is
good for you. This is not at all
like wanting a tasty filet mignon but getting a bland dish of steamed
broccoli instead just because it's good for you. It's not at all like
wanting someone as exciting as Rhett Butler in Gone with the Wind
-- but getting someone like Amos Hart, the quintessentially boring, but
adoring husband of Roxie Hart in Chicago.
It's about getting a wonderful man with
-- a man who is your most
preferred choice based on what's really important to
you. And isn't that the best definition of a dream man in the
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You Don't Have to Kiss a Lot of Frogs to
Find Your Prince!
you're like most women, the process of finding your dream man might seem
like a daunting task that requires lots of trial and error
before you succeed.
Believe me, I understand your dilemma because I've heard the same
complaint countless times from female clients who come to me for
Whenever you start dating someone new, you wonder, "Is he the one?" You
hope he's the right guy so you invest a lot of time and effort in
the relationship, only to see it come to an end -- usually with a broken
heart or a lot of pain.
It doesn't have to be that way. Finding your dream man is easy -- if
you know how. I've put together a proven plan that will save you
years of anguish in your search -- and put an end to the ineffective
trial-and-error process of finding your dream man.
proven plan I've devised, contained in my new eBook,
How to Find the Man of Your Dreams, is
based not only on real-life feedback from dozens of my female clients,
but also from time-tested strategies and techniques
I've developed over the years. When properly implemented, I assure
you that finding and attracting your dream man is only a few weeks or
When you get your hands on my e-Book, you'll be able to easily
identify your ineffective pattern that keeps you from finding your
dream man. I even make suggestions on behavioral changes, internal
dialogue and positive constructive actions that replace your
self-sabotaging pattern with an effective one.
By simply using my proven plan, you will be amazed how effortlessly
you'll find an endless pool
of ideal men who are custom-tailored for you -- and
who are also most likely to be mutually attracted to you and want to
You will also learn the simple exercise I devised for my clients,
which will enable you to discover a more accurate view of the type of
man you want to marry (see
page 55). This may
not seem like a big deal because you think you know your type --
but this is truly eye-opening. This alone is worth ten times the
price of the book. For my clients like Susan (above), it has made the
difference between being unhappily single and happily married!
But that's not all. Here's a small sampling of what you'll discover
within the pages of
How to Find the Man of Your Dreams:
Attracting men like a magnet ...
A (learnable) ability which is
the most attractive
attribute a woman can possess – more hypnotic
and powerful than a pretty face or a sexy body. Hint:
This has nothing to do with sex!
(see page 65)
How to activate a trigger residing in a man that will make
him feel an overwhelming sensation of love towards you
(see page 96)
powerful strategy that made a sought-after eligible man want to
ask a woman to marry him after only 5 months of dating
(see page 83)
The SECRET WEAPON
you can use to stir up a man's passion and give you more
power over him than you can imagine
(see page 95-96)
How to make a man feel that even though there are many women in
the world, there is absolutely no woman like you
(see page 106)
The secret mindset that will make men sit up and take notice of
you (see page
How to help the man of your dreams find you
(see page 64)
How to impress a man without really trying -- A
little-known way of behaving toward people that men find
infinitely more appealing than being upbeat, positive or
(see page 65)
How to give a man clues to let him know that you’re only
interested in a serious, long-term relationship – and that you’re
marriage material, not just someone to have fun with – while
keeping his interest at its peak
(see page 90)
How to make a man think it
was his idea to want to get married
(see page 94)
How to tell if a man is good for dating or good for
marriage – it’s seldom both!
(see page 26)
The one quality that, if you possess it, will give you an
immense sense of empowerment, which will in turn, draw the
enraptured attention of men to you. If you don’t have this,
no matter how pretty, smart or successful you are, men will
perceive something as missing in you -- even if they can’t
(see page 55 - 56)
How to set the tone for sexual intimacy -- the
8 magic words
you should tell him when he hints at having sex with you; this
will magnify your value in his eyes, drive him wild and
seriously consider spending his life with you. Note: My
wife uttered these famous words to me when we were still dating,
and I soon thereafter asked her to marry me.
(see page 89)
How to elevate your value in a man’s eyes – and make him want to
(see page 73)
Why it’s very important to make a man feel that you do
not expect him to fill all your emotional needs
(see page 95)
A powerful (but fun) 14-day exercise that is guaranteed to
bring a fresh supply of available men into your life –
takes only 10 to 15 minutes a day. This will really open you up
to someone new coming into your life – and most women ignore this
(see page 46 - 47)
The subtle method you can use to appear approachable and
inviting to a man -- without looking cheap or easy
(see page 61)
Progressing from dating to marriage proposal
in minimum time ...
How to make a man emotionally dependent on you – in as little
as 2 dates
(see page 82)
How long should your first phone conversation last? Longer than
this and you blow all chances of keeping his interest at
its peak (see
The only goal you need to have for a first date – ignore
this and you could be missing out on the love of your life
(see page 68)
How to dress in ways that a man would find most attractive
-- instead of dressing to impress other women
(see page 59)
The one thing you must convey on a first date – and the
things you should never share (most women get this one
The kind of behavior you should have on a first date that will
make you instantly interesting to a man who’s worthy of you
– and will repel men who are not desirable
(see page 70)
How much to disclose on your first and second date – more than
this and you’ll be setting a precedent that will be difficult to
(see page 78)
What you should never disclose on your first or second date
(see page 80)
A powerful third-date strategy that’s guaranteed to stir up
passion in a man more than anything
(see page 82)
What a man must see you be willing to do before he’ll want
to make you a permanent part of his life
(see page 81)
How a certain dating activity causes chemicals to be released in
the brain that overrides your rationality when it comes to
choosing a man; keeps you from pacing the relationship long enough
to know if he’s really your dream man or not
(see page 87)
How to end a date with him wanting more of you – and
guarantee that he’ll think of you often after the date has ended
(see page 72)
How to pace a relationship, keep it from overheating too soon and
avoid burning it out before it's had time to blossom
(see page 81)
How to use a man’s innate response to “voids” in order to make
your relationship progress faster into marriage – while making him
think it was his idea
(see page 102)
The telltale sign that gives a man the idea that you’re not
interested in him – even if you’re very interested! Make
sure you're not doing this or else you'll blow your
chances with him.
(see page 71)
out where the men are ...
3 unique places to meet men where there is a great ratio of single
men to single women – and the men are usually pre-screened
How to use the online dating sites to find exactly the kind
of man you want, weed out the losers, as well as lazy and
unattractive candidates -- without making yourself appear
shallow and self-centered
(see page 43)
Why being involved in singles groups may not be the
best way to meet men – and what’s a better alternative
(see page 37)
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"Can I ever find a
who will love me for who I am?"
Jennifer was 28 years old and
just coming out of a divorce when she came to me for counseling.
After years of living with someone who constantly berated her, she
began to view herself as the flawed, undesirable person her
ex-husband told her she was. Three months after the divorce, she
began to develop a tremendous fear that she would never
find a man who would love her for who she was.
The first thing I did was to teach her how not to
allow her fears to make her feel lonely, worthless or defective (see
page 9 of How to Find the Man of Your Dreams),
pointing out that the way she viewed herself was of utmost
importance in finding a man who would want to marry her.
Then, I guided her towards discovering what she really
wanted in a man (see page 55) -- and
equipped her to be prepared once he showed up in her life (see
Chapters 5 through 7).
At first, she did not believe the plan would work -- but she
stuck with it anyway. After 5 months, she not only had a clear
idea of what kind of man she was looking for, but this time she
was also convinced that it would happen. Then one day, she
met a man who seemed perfect for her -- except that he
didn't satisfy one of the criteria she had established as
her "non-negotiable" requirements in a man. She dared to remain
true to her heart and not make compromises. Eventually,
she ended that relationship -- even though she feared she might
be making a mistake.
A week later, she met a wonderful man at her church with all the
qualities she wanted, including the fact that he was tall (which
was important to her). They started dating, and within 9 months,
they were engaged to be married. They sent me a wedding
invitation that I keep in my drawer together with other
invitations of all my clients whose dreams have come true.
How Much Is It Worth to
Find the Man of Your Dreams?
Think for a moment of the
amount of time it takes for you to plan a one-week vacation -- and
the amount of money it takes to pay for it. It's quite a bit of
both time and money, isn't it? And that's just for a vacation that will
last one week of your life.
By comparison, it surprises me to see the lack of planning women put
forth into finding the man of their dreams -- when finding their dream
man will affect their entire life!
attracting the man of your dreams is something that you need to approach
in exactly the same way you would approach any other
important goal in
your life -- with a plan. As I mentioned earlier, I've developed
a proven plan which is featured in my new e-Book titled
How to Find the Man of Your Dreams.
Now, consider this ...
What is the value of replacing your ineffective pattern regarding
relationships -- and immediately having a pool of wonderful eligible men
that you can choose from?
How would your life change when you not only find and attract your dream
man -- but also have an enduring and blissful relationship with him?
What price can you put on not having
to go through the tedious trial-and-error process of finding your dream
man -- but instead having a step-by-step plan to effortlessly
attract him into your life?
What is the value of never feeling lonely or defective again --
and never fearing you'll end up with the wrong man?
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When Will You
Find the Man of Your Dreams?
Some women meet their dream man spontaneously -- by accident,
sheer luck or providence. But I have to tell you ... this happens
there are those women who meet and marry their dream man by taking an
and following a proven plan. I've seen this latter phenomenon
happen with predictable regularity
among my female clients.
How about you? Would you rather wait for your dream man
to fall into your lap by some stroke of luck -- or would you rather take
positive, constructive action to
your dream man to arrive at your doorstep?
If you'd rather do it the old-fashioned way and wait for him to show up,
then prepare yourself for a long wait. But if you'd rather
pursue your dream man the way you pursue any worthwhile goal in your
life -- that is, by following a step-by-step proven plan, then you
simply cannot be without
How to Find the Man of Your Dreams.
Can you afford to waste any more time getting less than the complete
happiness you deserve?
For your sake, I certainly hope you
take me up on my offer today.
Otherwise, the months and years will pass you by and you'll still
lonely, frustrated or desperate -- wishing for your dream man to come
Let me ask you one
final question: How would you
if your dream man were to walk into your life, fall in love with you,
marry you and promise you his undying devotion?
Now you don't have to
what it would feel like but actually
it for yourself.
Wishing you the relationship of your dreams,
Bob Grant, L.P.C.
P.S. When you find your dream man -- as
I'm certain you will -- please
don't forget to send me your wedding invitation. I may
not always have the time to attend every one of the many weddings I'm
invited to, but I'm always thrilled to receive one when I've helped
someone get engaged or married. Send the invitation to me at the
following address: Bob Grant, L.P.C., 1640 Powers Ferry Road, Building
17, Suite 375, Marietta, Georgia 30067.
P.P.S. I'm often asked the question:
Can a woman with children
find the man of her dreams?
My answer is "Yes, absolutely!" Consider the following story of one of
my female clients. ↓
was a tall, slender woman whose marriage ended because her husband
told her that he was in love with another woman. Needless to say,
she was so devastated and heartbroken that she could hardly
function. To make matters worse, she had 4 children -- all under
the age of 10. “Who’s going to want to marry a woman with 4
children?” she asked me. It’s a sentiment echoed by many divorced
or widowed women with children.
As we began to craft her future, I must say there were more
trying days than happy ones initially. Yet, in spite of it all,
she remained determined.
After discovering exactly the type of man
she really wanted, it became easier for her to
take a chance on men in spite of the
heartbreak she had previously suffered -- and without
worrying about making
a mistake. She also found it much easier to start dating
again, although she initially felt apprehensive about
it because she hadn't dated in ages.
In less than a year, she met another
single parent who had a young daughter that was the
same age as her own son. Shortly afterwards, they began
dating and I lost touch with her until 10 months later when she
made an appointment to see me. She sat down in my office and
extended her left hand to reveal a beautiful
diamond engagement ring. She thanked me for showing her that
in spite of all she had been through, she could still find her